10. Beto – Mexico in His Blood: Finding Strength in Family, Land, Sea, and Tradition 

We travel to Lo de Marcos, Nayarit — a coastal village where tradition, family, and the sea still define everyday life. Meet Beto, a coconut cutter, fisherman, and storyteller whose voice captures the soul of real Mexico. Through laughter, danger, and quiet reflection, Beto reminds us that resilience grows from roots. From saving a crocodile in the surf to honoring elders and raising his children with the same values he learned from his mother and sisters, his story is a living portrait of Mexican identity — grounded in family, land, sea, and spirit.

In Mexico, some stories are carved by the ocean and held together by family. They come from the smell of salt and soil, the rhythm of the tides, and family names carried like prayers. It is waking up with the sun, working with your hands, honoring elders, and keeping traditions alive even as tourism and modern pressures roll in.

There are people whose strength does not come from ambition or wealth, it comes from the earth itself. Meet Beto, coconut cutter, oyster diver, fisherman, neighbor, storyteller, a man who believes that joy comes from the land and courage comes from the heart.


Who Beto is

Beto lives in Lo de Marcos, Nayarit, a quiet stretch of Mexico’s Pacific coast where mornings start early and life moves with the sea. He cuts coconuts, collects oysters, fishes, and looks out for the people around him. He is the kind of person who makes you feel, quickly, that a community is not just a place, it is a practice.

“My days, as always, are wonderful. The kind of day you have depends on you. The difference between a good day and a bad day is your attitude. So, up to now, my days have been wonderful.”

For Beto, resilience is not a concept, it is a decision made before the day even begins.

“So, it’s up to you to make the day good for yourself and sometimes for others, or to make it bad. Just as you treat others, they can treat you the same. So don’t complain…don’t complain.”

Listening to him, you realize how much of life is shaped by what we choose to carry, and what we refuse to spread.

“My main work, what I dedicate myself to, is cutting coconuts and selling them. The other is collecting oysters and selling those too. What does that have to do with Mexican culture? A lot. Why? Because we still have that art, climbing the palm tree, cutting your own coconut, opening it, and if you want, adding a bit of tequila. Life gets even happier with tequila. That’s one of the connections we have. And fishing, we’re fishermen. Fish is an incredible food, and with it, everyone ends up happy.”

His work is not just a way to survive, it is a living connection between land, sea, tradition, and joy.


The Paradise and the Crocodile

Beto calls his town a paradise, not because it is perfect, but because it gives you everything you need, work, nature, and time. And then he tells a story that makes you understand the kind of responsibility that comes with loving a place.

One morning, a call spread across the beach. A crocodile had washed ashore, weak and tangled near the surf. Most people would stay back. Beto stepped forward.

“My reaction was to grab the crocodile and pull it out, because in the sea, you can’t really check how it’s doing. But when you see an animal that’s hurt, like all Mexicans, you just want to help, right? Even if it’s injured.”

What could have been just a wild moment becomes something else in his telling, a picture of service, courage, and the kind of community where people do not watch from a distance when something is struggling.


But paradise is fragile. Modernization and tourism can bring jobs, and they can also erode traditions, privatize beaches, and price locals out of their own home. Beto is clear-eyed about that reality, and he is equally clear about what still matters most.

“The real heart of Mexico lives in the family. That’s where people should start, right there.”

If you watch Beto’s episode, listen for how often he returns to the same idea, protection is not only politics, it is people choosing each other, again and again.

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Beto’s invitation is simple and unmistakably his, “Everyone is very welcome here in Lo de Marcos. Here’s your friend — they call me Beto Palmas. And whenever you want to come, we’re here. We’re Mexicans. And well, come buy a coconut, huh? We’ve got coconuts, oysters, pineapples, fish — everything. Remember that Mexico is 100% natural. And if you don’t believe me, take a sip of tequila… and then we’ll talk. Salud otra vez. [laughs] Salud.”